Friday 16 October 2020

The First Day, a Scam and a Waste of Money

Day One is Done!

I think it looks lovely, this is a nice easy cross stitch because there are only a few colours in it of course it will get more detailed as it progresses through the days but I'm enjoying it so far...

I was thinking that if I try and sew a day a month then it should be finished in plenty of time for Christmas next year You can find details about this lovely project here 

Sewing this has rekindled my past love of cross stitch and I'm having to stop myself from starting another cross stich project, I have one I started many years ago and I'm looking at it again and wondering if I should pick it up again but it's a big one and counting all those tiny squares is not easy even if it is good for the brain it's not so good for the eyes I'm still deciding.  

The Waste of Money..

I just wasted £10 and it's all my fault or should I say Alexa's fault.  Have you got Alexa or something similar? well all I can say is be very careful especially if you are deaf like I am.  I use Alexa as a radio, for making lists, and for setting timers I haven't burnt a single boiled egg or pan since I got her...hang on I know what you are saying if you are using Alexa for an egg timer then why did you buy that egg timer you showed us a couple of weeks back? well all I can say about that is I was swayed by a friend who was telling me about his and how good it was and of course I wanted one too and did it work? I hear you say, it did the first time I used it and then after that no it didn't, so with that in mind I have actually wasted £16! 



Anyway I digress, I got my card statement the other day and there was a transaction for £9.99 from Amazon music, I hadn't bought anything and couldn't find anything on my account until I dug deeper and lo and behold I have had an an Amazon music membership since October 3rd but... I didn't apply for one. I don't even play Amazon music and then a little bell went off, I remember asking Alexa to play some piano music because I know there are some free playlists on Amazon and she did but before she did she rambled on a bit and then said would you like that? I couldn't hear what she said and thought she was just asking about a playlist and I said YES! Now I know what I was saying yes to, a blinkin Amazon Music membership! I'm annoyed because I have wasted a week not knowing I had it.  I have cancelled it so at least I won't get billed next month AND I will never say yes to Alexa again. 

The Scam

Many of us are now shopping more and more online and it's very easy to be influenced by all the sale talk and pictures of wonderful merchandise especially on Facebook, I like Facebook as a crafting resource there are so many great crochet groups on there and I love seeing what everyone is making but then out of the blue an advert will pop up for something you really need or want I'm sure our phone's, laptops and tablets must listen in, you can say I need a new pair of boots and before you know it all these advertisements will appear for boots.  

Anyway that's what happened to me an advert came up for a pair of lovely ankle boots from a company called INCOLORKEY there were over 300 five* reviews about these boots and the price was very reasonable so I bought some. After a couple of days I got an email saying they had been dispatched and a tracking number when I clicked on that I was directed to a very legitimate looking website. Weeks later the boots still hadn't arrived even though the tracking site said they had been delivered! 

I emailed customer services and was told that I shouldn't worry the boots were on their way and that there was a delay due to Covid 19. I then began to investigate which is what I should have done in the beginning. I found out that other people had had the same experience as me and we had been taken in by a very clever scam!

I requested a refund on paypal and to my relief within five minutes I had one.  Huge lesson learnt only buy from reputable sellers that are well known!

Remember that sweet treat I wanted to make last week well I hardly dare show you🤦‍♀️

Blueberry Muffins...


They have erupted! problem was I hadn't got any muffin cases and I put too much batter in the tins, but they taste ok and are oozing with blueberries so they must be healthy right? I only ate one and froze the rest, you can find the recipe here, now what shall I bake this weekend 
🤔

Have a great weekend and stay safe 😘

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20 comments:

  1. Your cross stitch looks lovely and I like your idea of stitching a day each month.
    I'm sorry you were taken in by that scam. It must have been a relief to get your money back. X

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  2. Sorry to hear about the scams. I don't know how some people sleep at night knowing they have stolen from people. I hope you added your own review! The muffins look great to me. If I'm in a shop, I choose erupted muffins over plain, boring ones.

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  3. The cross stitch will be a great project. Yes, you do have to be careful with Alexa. Sometimes she will start talking and we didn't even as her anything. It is listening all the time when you talk. LOL. The muffins look great. Hope you have a nice Friday and weekend Linda.

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  4. That sampler looks like an undertaking, so good for you for starting now and taking it slowly. Scams seem to be around all the time. Facebook tracks what you search for and then produces those ads. I almost got taken on Amazon, got a free ebook but read the fine print and cancelled the account, seems with the free book came a monthly subscription which I didn't want. Cancelled right away. We must be vigilant all the time.

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  5. There are so many adverts on FB and Instagram it's hard to know if they are genuine or not. Glad you were able to get your money back. Almost certainly Amazon will give you a refund for Amazon music if you contact them. I signed up for Acorn TV a while ago and then thought id cancelled it before the one month free trial was up, turn out i hadn't and when i contacted them they cancelled the subscription and refunded me the money now questions asked. You can do it via the online chat on Amazon. Lovely stitching :-)

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  6. Lovely cross stitches !!!! And yummy muffins !!!
    Sorry about the scams...With internet, everybody can be fool....
    Have a cosy weekend !
    Anna

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  7. Your day one looks great, we seem to be stitching around the same speed as I've just finished mine too. I'm glad you managed to get your money back, it's such a good job that there is protection in place when paying through Paypal or on a credit card as there's so many scams around these days.

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  8. We don't have an Alexa.
    Pleased the scams and troubles got sorted, but you can do without things like that can't you!
    I do like your stitching and as for your muffins "oozing with blueberries" that sounds delicious.

    Enjoy your weekend.

    All the best Jan

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  9. Technology....it is so easy to be scammed, isn't it. So glad you were refunded your money, Linda. Those blueberry muffins look rather delicious and as for your Christmas cross stitch....it is lovely. I think it is wonderful you have rekindled your love of cross stitch.

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  10. Love your twelve days of Christmas cross stitch. It's very easy to get scammed and you are not alone! But it's a horrible feeling when it happens.

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  11. Lovely cross stitch. I have bad ears too, but don't have Alexa. Glad you got your scams, and unwanted memberships taken care of.

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  12. I use Alexa a lot around the house We have her turning lights off and on and she is a help in the kitchen. But you are so right they make it so easy so when I got mine I didn't allow any shopping to happen thru Alexa. It seems there are many more scammers these days then ever before, sadly! That will be a cute Christmas piece and you should be able to complete it by next Christmas for sure!

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  13. Pick up the big cross-stitch and get a pair of readers. I put mine on whenever I cross-stitch now. I also have a magnifier that works wonderful also. The first day of Chrismas it pretty. So sorry about the waste of money and the scam. I have become very careful about where I purchase items on the internet lately. At least Paypal refunded your money.

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  14. Lovely little cross-stitch. I only do small projects now and enjoy it. I can't imagine again doing all the huge, detailed, back-stitched projects I did in my younger days. :) I am happy to report that I don't use any of those tech gadgets. I have never had Facebook. And have never and will never order anything from Amazon. It's good that you were easily able to get the charges sorted out. Take care.

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  15. So sorry to hear about your waist of money.
    Love the Christmas stitches too, the first day is so beautiful!

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  16. I hate to waste money!!!! My friend go scammed by something like the boots but it was for sneakers. Good for you for getting your money back. #trafficjamweekend

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  17. Beautiful cross stitch, I love it. I've been cross stitching again after a 20 something year break myself recently and I have to say I am loving it.
    I'm sorry to hear about your boots scam, you just have to be so careful these days don't you? And the amazon music things seems a bit like prime, doesn't it. Free delivery blah blah blah so you say yes to a free trial and before you know it trial is up and they are taking your money! I think we've all been stung with that in the past!

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  18. Good advice here - and yes... the lure of advertisements online is incessant!

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